The new normal
The news, if it’s news to you: a Blue Garter Baby is in the works. (Some of you are going to say right here, “Hah! All those baby knits! I knew it!” but it’s absolutely true that almost all of them are for babies other than my own. It’s babies galore this year.) I have reason to know that wee new lives are not sure things and so I’ve delayed announcing this one here, but our Minnow is blithely thumping me with tiny feet and fists at this very moment and we have seen on the ultrasound that it looks healthy as a horse in every particular at 20 weeks’ gestation… and at some point soon I’m going to have to model an adult-size garment here (I hope it will be Pas de Valse) and you’re going to notice that my midsection is not so svelte these days! In fact, let’s just get that last bit out of the way right now:
We finally snapped some documentary evidence last week after we’d hiked up Mt. Hebo in Tillamook County on a glorious day. (How I love Spring Break!) As the hiking would indicate, I’ve been entirely healthy. I seem to be one of those hateful women who suffers no ill effects whatsoever during early pregnancy, although I’m sure there are still plenty of delightful physical symptoms down the road that can’t be dodged. When people know you’re gravid they thoughtfully ask how you’re feeling, and I’ve had to confess to feeling remarkably normal. One friend who’s raised two children replied, “Well, this is the new normal.” And she’s right. There will be all kinds of new normal to adapt to, and I think I’ll try to remind myself of that at times when I find I’m struggling against the changes to my comfortable routines.
Minnow should make his or her appearance in the world around 11 August. (Nerdy knitter that I am, I’m hoping for two days early on Elizabeth Zimmermann’s centennial birthday, and since 8.9.10 in the American dating system appeals to my husband’s sense of number he’s promised that he’ll have me out running stairs in an effort to kick-start the labor.) The sex will be a surprise to everyone but Alison the ultrasound tech — she didn’t even record it in her report for my doctor. We’ll be getting a niece just a few weeks later, so I can channel any urges to knit adorable girl things in that direction while making sensible gender-neutral clothes for my own offspring.
This is it. Our lives will never be the same. But there’s no spice and little joy in too much of the same anyway, right?